The miserable effects of pursuing women.

Laban the great
2 min readAug 16, 2022

In this post, I’ll cover two things: why women make you chase them and why it’s a bad idea to do so.

First, she’s probably not into you if she makes you chase her. When a lady likes you, it’s easy to tell from her speech, availability, and body language. If you’re the one doing the chase, it suggests she’s not into you, presumably has multiple suites, and you’re not on her list, so she makes you work harder to “win her.” The second reason is related to prior terrible experiences with men; she doesn’t feel safe with you, so she builds walls to guard her heart. She believes that the harder a man works for her adoration, the more dedicated he will be to the course, but this is rare and I’ll cover it in more detail soon.

Two reasons why guys shouldn’t pursue after women:

1. Misdirects your attention

When you chase women, it diverts your attention and energy from you. Now is the time to make your objectives, inspiration, and aspirations come reality. Now if you chase ladies instead of your desire, you’ll learn your aspirations are tougher to accomplish and you’ve spent a lot of time. So I say chase your dreams first, and once you’re successful, guess who will be chasing you? Whoa, who? Women.

2. You come across as pitiful and helpless.

The second reason you shouldn’t chase women is that you appear desperate and pitiful, especially if the feelings aren’t reciprocated. If you keep texting, calling, and trying to meet up with a female who doesn’t want to be with you, it becomes unpleasant and hazardous. As a male, the instant a woman says no, simply walk away, especially if you’re trying to vibe with her. Cut your losses and go on, and I think a lot of men need to do that because if you get that woman, it will be another task to keep the relationship alive. There are plenty of fish in the sea.By all means, is this list comprehensive nor is it in any order whatsoever.

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Laban the great
Laban the great

Written by Laban the great

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